Have you ever thought that nobody talks about your issues?

This question has always troubled me. It looks like every person today talks about an imaginary person. The habits, the systems, the world around a goal, and all but no one, really, talks about me or you or an ordinary person-average person. Our issues, resolutions,  responsibilities, love, life, etc. as if these stories would just be ordinary and not get any appreciation.

Average people

However, the only appreciation we need is from our community- Average people . We all need to talk about this and stand united in making our world better. In reality, an average person rules the world or acts in a certain way persistently to get something. A Genius on the other hand is someone who has already reached the destination. Why would he or she require anybody’s help?

NOBODY seems to help the ordinary folks, who are on a journey, the contemplating ones, what constitutes their mindfulness, who they are? The confused ones! Surely, I am among these. I see people either labeling us a failure or someone who are indecisive. Mind it, even if this decision-making is a little towards the riskier side and you fail, they ask us why did you not calculate your risk?

The answer to this, according to me is, DUDE, why do you think I would not have done that? But yeah, since your risk did not bear any fruit, you become instantly a bad risk taker, and he behaves like an authority, delegated by the universe on his shoulders, to inform you regarding your failure.

LIKE DUDE PLEASE!

Such labels have done so much harm to us. Rather, if there was someone who could say MAN o Man! What you did demands a lot of guts! Our confidence would soar. Every time. Anytime.

People often take our failures as proof of their judgments. Their narrow-sighted habits stem from their desire to impress themselves and their community, reinforcing their beliefs. Their admonishments are about stamping their brilliance. They seek reassurance.

Look you found their vulnerability! Isn’t it?

This habit of people, reassuring their beliefs, for themselves, on themselves, has led to many catastrophes in human behavior. The average person suddenly tries to find one (reassuring habit) but forgets that they are reassuring your failure as their strength. However, your success (a reassurance for you) would damage these assumptions and they would again come running to tell you that we always believed in you. I think this must be called, THE LAW OF SUB-ORDINATION because you break their set of beliefs, the pattern of their thinking and they sit in awe while thinking how did you do that? From there onwards, they look up to you and want to work under you or with you.

We have this one habit of SURVIVAL, through thick and thin, the sole reason of our existence.

Let’s collectively form a habit of being your own best friend and seek those who want to help you and see you succeed. Not those who want to rub salt in your wounds by joining the criticism wagon. The ultimate lie they sell is, we are your friends; it’s our responsibility to show your weakness before others do. I do not condone this, but what needs to be told is that come on, there would come a phase where any criticism, after getting full-on confidence in myself, will look and be taken as completely different, in a positive way.

You cannot tell a person in hell that you are in hell until you give him heaven and make him believe that there is a heaven and he is in hell. Reminding you that it would not be a comparison, but the person will take you on a journey, where you would be able to see the heaven and feel it, rather than he standing in heaven and telling you that see, your was a hell.

So to the people who are like me an Average, let’s talk, let’s comment under this post and tell each other that we are here to listen and help you by becoming friends. A friend in need is a friend indeed.

AVERAGERS LETS ASSEMBLE.

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